Wednesday, June 24, 2009

a fight is a fight

For some reason, I am hoping for Typhone 8 arrive in Hong Kon at some point soon. Maybe in that case, I don't have to go out any more. Staying at home is such a luxurary thing and I am enjoying it.
It looks like we can live like this for a long long time. It won't do any good for either of us. So I decided to call a meeting between him and I. So I started the talk...
2:37pm
Are you still angry? do you think you need a bit more time to stay apart? I am not angry anymore for a couple of days. I think maybe today is a good time after a week of cooling down ourselves. So, I would like to call for a meeting to solve the conflict between you and me, calmly, if you are willing to as well.
2:37 PM
I am not angry either.
2:38 PM
We can probably sit down for a 'meeting'...
2:39 PM
Can you come home early today then?
2:39 PM
Early as in what time?
2:40 PM
as early as you can.
2:41 PM
I can probably make it for around 4pm.
2:41 PM
(Unless something comes up, which is unlikely, though)
2:42 PM
4 is ok for me.
2:42 PM
would be great if you can print out pages from the following webistes and bring them back: http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/The_3_Biggest_Mistakes_Couples_Make_to_Kill_the_Passion.html
2:43 PM
http://creativeconflicts.com/2008/10/5-tips-to-conflict-proof-your-marriage-raising-your-happiness-by-eliminating-the-stress-of-conflict/
2:43 PM
can you do that?
2:43 PM
working on it
2:43 PM
http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/couples/comm_conflictstyle.shtml
2:45 PM
http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/couples/comm_productive.shtml
2:45 PM
http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/couples/comm_makepeace.shtml
2:46 PM
they are just from the same websites.
2:46 PM
I noticed...
2:46 PM
thanks and see you at 4 then.
2:47 PM
See you at 4
A meeting is set, so let's see how it will go. Things I think that should be disscussed: 1. how to spend weekend. 2. how to deal with our differences in lifestyle (lesisure time). 3. how to better communicate with each other. 4. how to make effort to make more friends.

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