a sex starved wife

Our sex life sucks! Because of it, we just had a big fight. I tried to initiate the sex when he came back from home, without any comforting he brutally turned me down. I felt so unwanted, left alone and very unattractive, then this sadness turned into anger and moody. I thought I might be getting too emotional, so I went out for a walk. It helped a little and calmed me down but not until I saw him again and he pretended there was nothing happening. Sat in front of my computer and browsing websites that have the help links, I found that I am one of sex-starved wives. http://www.time.com/time/health/article/0,8599,1728520,00.html?imw=Y
There I encouraged myself to talk with him, like usual talks we had, it led to a big fight. I told him how frustrated and confused I was when I was turned down shortly. He depended himself that he had given me signals not wanting sex. I told him that was not the real point, the point was that he did not talk me through it and treated me as I was a horny chick. Even, in the end he commented "you are a horny...". I totally dislikes his attitude towards the whole thing, instead of a nice talk, the initiated talk turned into a big fight which will probably take us a few days to really forget it. Long forget about the sex but the frustration and anxiety are still within... only really loud coldplay will help at this moment...