Where are we going?

there could never be peace between him and me. The whole day we have been strange to each other. It started in the church. I pointed out to him that there was someone ,who we haven't seen for a long time, was over the other side. He immediatly felt repusive and said something in a blaming tone like " what do you want me to do?". I couldn't stand his attitude " what is your problem?" "I pointed out someone we knew and didn't see for a long time, what is the problem of that?" "That is the problem." he walked straight on without any humble of appolegizing gesture at all. "Do you have social phobia or something?" He was not usually like that. There he Harshly turned me down and brought my mood to zero degree cold. He doesn't feel that he might have hurt my feeling at all. Why does he need to feel so? He is a man. I couldn't stand his attitude and he didn't try to make peach with me either. There I went angrier, I sat seperate from him. In fact, I wanted to sit far seperate from him. The way he behaves just makes me feel he was a total stranger to me. A stranger that I dislike and couldn't care less to speak to. It seems whenever there is a situation that we have to resolve, that's when we sort of start talking. Even so, his attitude is like "why would l care to talk to you, well I have to now because I need to solve this problem in front of me, so be it." We have said we would look at the apartment at Ma Anshan, so some decisions need to be made. Very briefly we talked, neither of us could care to make the other happier. That's really sad but there we went. We looked the apartment without really talking to each other. We chose a place to eat, after the lunch the situation went slightly better, the food usually brought up mood a little. Still, we kept distances to each other. On our way back, we fell back again for another thing we talked about I don't remember now. Again, it was time to solve another problem, asking about renewal of the apartment that we are staying right now. He started to talk to me again still in long distance. I sat at my computer, feeling tired. "If you don't have any other thing planned for us, I'd like to go to the sauna." He is under my restrain and he gets what he wanted. Why did he have to sound like that I planned everything else, could he please have some time for himself? I don't understand. I am not his mother. What kind of partner he thinks I am? Yes, I usually want to do something outdoor. but he would rather do nothing and stay in flat the whole weekend, preferrably without any disturbunce. Only, only if I said that I would like to do this or that, I then felt obligation to come along. What kind of partnership or relationship this is? Yes, busy busy is his work and life at the moment. Really can't he spare anytime to plan a little walking about ahead. I don't believe so... we just don't share similar interests as we should do. Everytime he did so, he did it as if he was doing me a favour and he was obliged to do so. He just doesn't have much compassion towards the others and would not like to share the part of life I enjoy. We are sleeping seperately... we have to ... he snors and woke me, even himself up... I have better sleep now and feel happier with myself... but we still live together.